If you’re someone who likes to plan your future, be it for the next 30 seconds or the next 30 years, you might find the idea of fate a bit airy fairy. It’s often said alongside terms such as ‘What will be, will be’ or ‘Let’s just let fate decide’. And it probably feels like … Read more
Finding the right words to say, especially when emotions are high, can be tough. But realizing that those words are being ignored by the person they were intended for cuts far deeper. You wish they would acknowledge you, understand you, or even argue the point with you. Anything but ignoring you would be better. Their … Read more
If you have an opinion outside of the norm, people presume you’re argumentative. And if you’re driven by happiness rather than money, people insist that you’re just work-shy, and can’t be bothered to chase the big bucks. In fact, if you have any kind of aspirations that move you away from conventional living, people judge … Read more
We all enjoy a lazy day now and then. To kick back, release the pressure, and do absolutely nothing. It’s good to unwind. To find that comfy spot on the sofa and indulge in a little ‘You’ time. Some people, however, take this to an extreme. Laziness becomes a full-time pursuit. And the avoidance of … Read more
What are you most afraid of? Is it heights, spiders, or maybe the dark? What about speaking in public, or visiting the dentist for a check-up? It’s quite normal to be fearful of a situation, especially when it’s unknown. Or worse still, known to leave you feeling uneasy. It takes a huge amount of courage … Read more
We are born instinctively knowing how and when to breathe. It’s not something we learn, but rather a natural reflex that kicks in at the right moment. Some babies may need a helping hand to get started. But for most, that first breath is taken without hesitation. And usually followed by a welcomed high-pitched scream … Read more
Many of us live with some kind of emotional trauma. It may be sparked by a neglectful parent, an onslaught of school bullying, or a controlling partner, to name a few scenarios. And the impact can be immense. It shapes the way we think, how we approach situations, relationships and so much more. And though … Read more
The word mentor can mean different things to different people. For some, it may be a friend who selflessly listens after a relationship breakup. For others, a person who offers guidance when starting a new job. But whilst the situation will vary, the goal of a mentor does not. It’s their responsibility to offer direction … Read more
We’re all intrigued by other people’s lives. Whether it’s watching folk walk past as we sit in the local café, or searching through social media to catch up on the latest celebrity gossip, curiosity comes to us all. It’s human nature. People are fascinating to watch. And by taking an interest in their lives, we … Read more
If there is one thing that we all want out of life, it’s to be happy. Not just OK, or getting by. But completely and utterly happy. It’s the reason why we change our jobs. Get our hair done. Go out for dinner. Buy a new phone, a puppy, a holiday… It’s all in aid … Read more