“I don’t care what people think!” You’ve likely said that time and time again, yet you still care. Why? I’ve included different factors that could help answer the question, along with 13 powerful tips on how to not care what people think, for real. You’ll come to appreciate the tips after discovering the dangers caring too … Read more
I remember what it was like being a woman in my 20s. It’s exhilarating and frightening at the same time. You’re kind of stuck between leaving your childhood and adolescence behind and embracing your new life as a “proper” adult. That being said, it was also the best time of my life – a time … Read more
The term ‘gaslighting’ continues to grow in popularity as people call out toxic behavior. It’s important to stand up against someone who treats you unfairly… and friends are no exception. Friends are supposed to respect and support you. So, if you feel like a friend is mistreating you, we are here to help you identify … Read more
Did you know that there are actually five primary types of gaslighting? If you’ve ever been gaslighted, you probably agree with me about how confusing and painful it can be. You feel like a shell of yourself after you’ve been “torched”. It’s awful and nobody should have to put up with being treated this way. … Read more
I have been in situations when someone said or did something and then gaslighted me by saying I was “too sensitive,” and “emotional.” Such experiences have left me feeling frustrated and downright furious. One particularly painful experience involved being the only one speaking up about a problem colleague in a meeting at a past job. … Read more
Ahhh! That warm, fuzzy feeling of a new relationship. It’s unmistakable. You’re getting showered with so much affection, you feel like you’re on cloud nine. You can hardly wait to enjoy the promises made by your new partner for a bright future. Yet there’s this nagging feeling things seem too good to be true. What can … Read more
From the get-go, you should keep an eye open for signs of a codependent friendship… where one person is the dominant giver and the other is the dominant taker. This means you’ll need to learn how codependency happens, what signs to look for, its toll on mental health and well-being and when to end the relationship. Lucky … Read more
Have you ever noticed how individuals respond and interact with the world differently? Personality types, strengths, and preferences influence how we view, interact with, and experience the world. The Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) suggests there are 16 personality types, as explained in more detail in Myers-Briggs 16 Personality Types: A Beginner’s Guide. They include ISTJ, INTJ, ISFJ, INFJ types. Each … Read more
My first boyfriend and I finally made the leap to move in together. It was great: pizza and cuddles, hanging out together all times of the day, and long talks about what we wanted in life. Then, it began to change. I had never believed I would experience gaslighting in a relationship. We argued, but … Read more
Do you ever get the silent treatment in your marriage or romantic relationship? You know the other person is angry. You can see the anger or even outright hostility. But he or she simply won’t tell you what’s wrong, or even how to solve this issue. If this sounds familiar, then you’ve experienced a negative … Read more