Gaslighting is a term that has been around for a while now, but has only recently become used more often. Like many psychological terms, it is often taken much more lightly than the actual word implies. Today, we are going to take a look at what gaslighting is and how we often self-gaslight. We will … Read more
Arguing is a narcissist’s forte, especially the antagonistic or argumentative narcissist. The only problem is when a narcissist isn’t in the mood to argue, they will deflect. Narcissist deflection is just as toxic. The tactic is nothing more than a way to worm their way out of trouble. Any type of narcissist can employ deflection strategies, including … Read more
Killer dreams can be killer, but when you are having killing dreams, it can significantly disturb you. But what does it mean when you dream about getting shot? Should you live in the shadows and out of plain sight so no one can get to you and end your life? Should you live your life … Read more
While sitting at the vets recently, I had a discussion with a fellow pet owner about her high-strung dog and what signs the pup had that indicated she was excitable and reactive. As we looked at the whippet puppy salivating over the people in the waiting room, I wondered how wonderful it would be if … Read more
For people with anxiety, even everyday activities can seem like impossible tasks. Fortunately, using words of encouragement for anxiety canhelp boost your confidence and improve your quality of life, as well as improve the mood of someone you know struggling with anxiety. Over 40 million Americans over the age of 18 currently have an anxiety … Read more
Imagine sitting in an office building waiting for an appointment. You hear the shuffling of feet as several people walk down the hallways. Many walk by you with their heads down or quickly look your way and nod as they pass you by. Others seem very shy and a bit reserved. Then, all of a … Read more
The “I don’t want to work anymore” feeling can rise quickly and sharply, or it can be like a slow-burn and dawn on you over time. And yes, we’ve all been there. Over the past decade of my work life (and I’ve had a few jobs), I’ve woken up a few mornings, and the first … Read more
My 36-year-old daughter never learned how to stop oversharing. One day, she ventured out into the freezing cold in her Chewbacca pajamas to help her husband bring firewood inside. She slipped on ice, fell, screamed, “Wookiee down!” and shared it to social media. The following day, she arrived at work to be inundated with dozens … Read more
Ever look at other people and just feel … small? No matter what they are doing, you feel like you can’t do it as well as they do. You have had a feeling like you’re a one-legged man in a butt-kicking contest, and you can only kick your own butt. In medical terms, it’s known … Read more
There are days when you just need help. You feel utterly overwhelmed, out of your depth, and bowled over by life. Your brain runs out of feel-good power, and you hit rock bottom, your mind just abandoning all hope. This is the point when you consider the pros and cons of a therapist vs psychiatrist, … Read more