My friend Sophie’s parents don’t validate her hard work, are uninterested in her achievements, and always seem to prioritize work over actually being there for Sophie and her siblings. What started in her childhood is continuing into adulthood, and she continues craving emotional support from her parents. Sound familiar? Do your parents also avoid taking … Read more
You love someone, and you hope they love you back, but suddenly your world crashes when they turn to you and say those fated words – “I think we should see other people.” It’s absolutely devastating. Having poured heart and soul into a relationship only to go through a painful breakup is nobody’s idea of … Read more
My good friend Eden is a huge anime fan, so much so that she can’t pick a favorite show or character. On one of our coffee dates, she blurted out that she had finally signed up for Comic-Con (a world-famous comic convention), and was determined to dress in her best cosplay (dress up as a … Read more
I bet you never thought you’d be combing the internet for an explanation about shy vs introvert, have you? I lean more toward the introverted side on the introvert-extrovert scale. I’m also shy, but only in certain rare situations. That might indicate shyness isn’t an embedded or primary personality trait–just a sign of an introvert. In short, … Read more
Our worth is defined solely by our perception of ourselves and our inner strength and not by our looks, social status, past actions, or the opinions of others. But many people are too harsh on themselves, struggling with low self-esteem and its consequences which prevent them from being happy and successful. This is why tools … Read more
The saying goes, “When life hands you lemons, make lemonade.” In other words, we need to maintain a positive, can-do attitude if we hope to succeed amid hardship. Optimism is what it takes to make the bitter, sweet… and the awful, enjoyable. There is no better way to remain optimistic as a Christian than to … Read more
Funerals are an important social event, but they can be difficult for people to navigate. Since most of us fortunately don’t get much practice attending them, it leaves many people feeling anxious and struggling to think of things to talk about. Striking the balance between providing emotional support for other mourners without being overbearing or … Read more
Being alone and bored at home is not the end of the world. In fact, our homes are supposed to be considered our sanctuaries. And thanks to modern technology, there is so much more we can do without having to leaving our abode… while still living full and productive lives. Bear in mind, as I … Read more
All the extroverts make it seem so easy to make and have friends. I’m sure you, my fellow introvert, have noticed. An extrovert seems to be like a lighted candle, and all the moths (aka many friends) are just attracted to the candle and dance and flutter about. And then there’s you. It seems impossible … Read more
An apology letter to girlfriend might not be your usual way of communicating with your partner, especially since you could easily shoot her a text or email. Sometimes it takes something more substantial and detailed–like a letter, to say how truly sorry you are. A letter gives you a chance to lay bare your thoughts and feelings … Read more