In life, it seems we have two choices. We can be nice or nasty. While we’re not necessarily nice all the time, we can choose whether we want to be nicer or nastier. Being self-aware and prosocial is what helps make life pleasant and positive for those whose paths we cross. My first experience with … Read more
A soul friend. What an attractive word and idea, especially in this day and age where we assign the word “friend” to anyone who comes along as a way to ease our loneliness. In fact, you may call your neighbor, colleague, drinking buddies, and acquaintances your friends. But stop for a moment … and ask yourself, … Read more
Getting to know people can be difficult at first. Having a way to break the ice without having to reveal too much at the beginning is great for building self-confidence, especially in teenagers. Questions that have a specific answer are good to start with. They can be made more revealing over time by adding the … Read more
Some of our favorite and most memorable fictional characters from TV sitcoms, cartoons, and the big screen share the ISTP personality type. We identify with these characters because of their levelheadedness and calmness in times of crisis. We can even relate to their risk-taking nature and thrill-seeking tendencies. They are often nonjudgmental and tolerant of others. … Read more
Are you looking for a unicorn when it comes to men? In more human terms, a unicorn man, also known as a high value man, is something of a rarity because he’s “all that” and more. If you’ve ever met a self-made man, you know exactly what I’m talking about. He is the kind of … Read more
Do you often downplay your achievements, even when you deserve recognition? Or perhaps you notice others who seem to act humble yet subtly bask in the spotlight. False humility can be a sneaky force, undermining genuine interactions and self-perception. In a world that values modesty, it’s easy to confuse it with true humility. Join us … Read more
When I recently had a fender bender at work, I sighed and asked my colleague (who had rear-ended me as we all rushed home from work) if he was okay. Instead of shouting and raging at the situation, I remained calm and resolved a way forward without blaming my colleague. He had clearly been in … Read more
Sadness and depression are more than merely waking up on the wrong side of the bed. So often, life has given us such a strong, steady dose of unmet expectations we lose hope and faith in the possibility of a better day. It’s like sowing a field of crop and later checking on it and … Read more
When my boss and I had a huge argument, in which he was at fault, I was only too happy when he apologized to me. However, his apology was less than honest, and he actually used a fake desire to make amends as a way to get his win in the argument and leave me … Read more
Have you realized that a narcissist has stolen your heart or lured you into a trap you can’t get out of? Maybe they crushed your spirit, drained your energy, and obliterated your hope. Whether you’re deeply in love, feel guilty or responsible, or hang onto the idea they might change, you are in a toxic … Read more