Learn the traits of a narcissist, how to find out if someone you know is one, how to get the better of a narcissist and how to deal with a narcissist if someone you know or love is one.
The term “gaslighting” is frequently used in our culture. But what does it really mean? Gaslighting is a term for a form of emotional abuse that can be hard to recognize. It’s not always readily apparent, even though it often occurs in abusive relationships. Yet, unfortunately, gaslighting can have serious consequences for your mental well-being … Read more
There was a time I wanted to know how to turn the tables on a gaslighter in my life because I’d had it with them. Now that you’ve found yourself in that place, I hope I can help. Writing topics on getting even with a gaslighter, making them fear you, or turning tables is my … Read more
Narcissists have chameleon-like personalities that allow them to go undetectable until their ‘mask’ slips. The proverbial mask represents the false self which is used to hide their true selves and (sometimes) their diabolical intentions. Add their charming personality and tendency to love bomb their ‘targets’ to the equation… and it becomes far more challenging to identify them … Read more
Arguing is a narcissist’s forte, especially the antagonistic or argumentative narcissist. The only problem is when a narcissist isn’t in the mood to argue, they will deflect. Narcissist deflection is just as toxic. The tactic is nothing more than a way to worm their way out of trouble. Any type of narcissist can employ deflection strategies, including … Read more
What are the signs you’re dating a narcissist? I’m happy you asked because I have a lot to tell. Boy! I wished someone had warned me what to look for. I would have saved myself the trouble. Instead, I paid the price by marrying (and divorcing) a narcissist! Don’t get me wrong. All narcissists aren’t malignant or ‘evil’ as they … Read more
Have you ever wondered if music can capture the intricate emotions of gaslighting? Songs about gaslighting offer a unique lens into the world of emotional manipulation and the toll it takes on us. They resonate with those who’ve experienced it, providing solace and understanding. In this curated list, we present 21 songs about gaslighting, each … Read more
Feeling insulted when someone says or does something inappropriate is perfectly normal. Sometimes, you may get angry enough to point out what bothered you. And that’s okay too, if you can accept an apology and move past the offense without making too big of a deal out of it. But for narcissists, putting an unintentional … Read more
When my boss and I had a huge argument, in which he was at fault, I was only too happy when he apologized to me. However, his apology was less than honest, and he actually used a fake desire to make amends as a way to get his win in the argument and leave me … Read more
Have you realized that a narcissist has stolen your heart or lured you into a trap you can’t get out of? Maybe they crushed your spirit, drained your energy, and obliterated your hope. Whether you’re deeply in love, feel guilty or responsible, or hang onto the idea they might change, you are in a toxic … Read more
Manipulation is where someone messes with your mind to control your actions. Those who manipulate others often end up creating toxic relationships. They also wind up hurting those close to them. It doesn’t matter whether they intended to or not. In this post, we’ll focus on those who willfully manipulate and how to manipulate a manipulator to … Read more