I bet you never thought you’d be combing the internet for an explanation about shy vs introvert, have you? I lean more toward the introverted side on the introvert-extrovert scale. I’m also shy, but only in certain rare situations. That might indicate shyness isn’t an embedded or primary personality trait–just a sign of an introvert. In short, … Read more
How often, when someone asks for your opinion, have you panicked, thinking they won’t like it? Or when you held a presentation at work, and you thought others would realize that you’re not competent enough for your job title. It happened to me many times, and in my journey, I’ve learned that many others are … Read more
Are you a team player or an independent worker? If you have worked for a company before, you know that this is a very typical question asked by most hiring managers. And admit it—sometimes, you are afraid of telling the truth that you’d rather work alone than spend time with other people in your office. … Read more
What does being an introvert truly mean? Or maybe a better question is, how does one understand and embrace his introverted personality? Being an introvert does not necessarily mean you hate people. Sometimes, it just means you prefer peace and solitude over noise and socializing—and there is nothing wrong with that! But if you ever … Read more
All the extroverts make it seem so easy to make and have friends. I’m sure you, my fellow introvert, have noticed. An extrovert seems to be like a lighted candle, and all the moths (aka many friends) are just attracted to the candle and dance and flutter about. And then there’s you. It seems impossible … Read more
​Do you have an INTJ personality type, and are you looking for a job that will bring you happiness and satisfaction? Working at a job that matches your personality is a rewarding experience. You maximize your strengths, and get a sense of fulfillment and enjoyment throughout the workday. However, if your chosen career does not … Read more
Sigma and Omega are two male types appearing on the socio-sexual hierarchy, a category system created by Theodore Robert Beale, more popularly known as Vox Day. The system of six archetypes ranks men from top to bottom based on their masculinity and personality traits and behavior. Some include dominance, leadership abilities, and male prowess. The other four male types are Alpha, … Read more
There are many different reasons why people hate talking on the phone. According to various studies, those reasons include concern about sounding weird to the caller, being misunderstood, fear of being unable to satisfy the caller’s need, or the caller not thinking highly of them. And often it is an introvert that fits the bill. … Read more
Unless you personally know and have a good connection with an introverted soul, you may believe that they’re antisocial, standoffish, and even rude. But you couldn’t be further from the truth. Whilst an introvert’s overwhelming shyness might make them more difficult to get to know, it’s nothing more than a door that you must work … Read more
Do you ever feel like something is wrong with you just because you don’t like joining groups or attending social gatherings? Or have you ever felt so shy in the midst of a crowd that you just wanted to disappear? First things first: There is nothing wrong with you. You are probably an introvert, and … Read more