When he said, “Don’t forget I know where you live,” I knew I was dealing with someone who is sociopathic and not an average narcissist. You won’t believe why he threatened to show up at my home. For a Keurig coffee machine! He was pissed off because I was unable to return it immediately. I threatened to … Read more
Years ago, I had a stalker where I worked. While I knew the stalker was the young high school graduate that was working at the company, he seemed harmless at first, so I didn’t pay too much attention to it. However, the signs soon piled up, and I realized I had missed the dangerous signs … Read more
Fiction often imitates life, yet it also has the advantage of being able to bring more obscure things into focus. That is the case with many personality types. In fictional characters INFJ characters are more common than in the real world. That is because this personality type is the rarest of the Myers-Briggs sixteen personalities. … Read more
The Bible is like a recipe book that gives us the steps and components for true success. In its pages, you will see ingredients like diligence, hard work, wise counsel, honesty, willingness, discipline, and wholehearted effort. What you won’t see in the list of ingredients for success in scripture is laziness. Laziness has the opposite … Read more
An obnoxious, grumpy old man sits at a table with his friends in a restaurant. For attention, he harasses and belittles the waitstaff without remorse. His behavior appalls everyone who can hear him. He clearly displays characteristics of a difficult person. At a local grocery store, a woman slowly strolls up and down the aisles … Read more
The quirky INTP personality type is definitely rare in the real world, but scriptwriters and book authors love including these characters in their work. They make for fun characters that often end up saving the day. In fictional characters, INTP traits such as independence and the ability to come up with creative solutions make for great … Read more
Scarlett O’Hara is one of the most famous fictional characters ESTP of all time. As a child, I envied her extravagance, brilliance, thirst for conquest, and striking beauty. Scarlett’s fearless interactions with authority figures and ability to tackle any obstacle inspired me and countless others to find inner strength we didn’t think we had. Another … Read more
I’m a big fan of The Hunger Games, so it’s no surprise that one of my favorite fictional characters is Katniss Everdeen. As an independent female, she used her skills as an archer to survive circumstances over which she had little control. Watching her take control onscreen as she connected to her deep emotions and … Read more
I recently got engaged, and when I shared the happy news with my colleagues, I was shocked to see a flash of anger in the eyes of a few of the single ladies. While they all mouthed congratulatory words, these ladies had dagger eyes and didn’t look happy. I discovered they had a crab mentality … Read more
How to manipulate a narcissist? It’s a bold question and a bold approach to dealing with such a person. Manipulation is how they trap, control, and use you. You won’t even know you’re being controlled until it’s too late. No wonder the thought of manipulating a narcissist triggers a rush of sensations. Excitement, fear, and … Read more