I think you will agree with me when I say that we are all clingy sometimes, especially at the beginning of a new relationship. When the connection is exciting and fresh, and we just cannot wait to see each other again. While having clingy tendencies may have been acceptable in past relationships, being overly needy is … Read more
It has happened to almost every woman: You are dating this new gorgeous, funny, attentive guy, and the relationship is going great. But after a few weeks with the guy, you’re in the middle of Sex and the City episode, in the role of Carrie, looking confused about Big’s behavior. Sounds familiar? If so, this … Read more
Do you have an off-the-charts connection with someone you’re attracted to, but can’t seem to figure out why you’re so intensely drawn to them? Perhaps you don’t know what to do with yourself around the individual who, by the way, could be a platonic friend. Could it be chemistry that has you all giddy and tongue-tied? … Read more
Many people are of the view that “gaslighting” is done on purpose. The opposite is true. The emotionally abusive act can occur without the person doing the gaslighting (aka, the gaslighter) knowing what they’re doing. On that note, I urge you to hold off on turning the tables on the gaslighter in your life until you understand fully what unintentional gaslighting really means and … Read more
When you tied the knot and placed that ring on your partner’s finger, you probably never envisioned that she may one day yell at you non-stop… and in public even. At least, this is what I was thinking when I saw a complete stranger yelling at her husband in public the other day. Her tirade … Read more
If you have ever been led on, you know how confusing and hurtful the situation was. When you happen to be the one leading someone on, their feelings are just as vulnerable. Sometimes, people lead others on, and it doesn’t always have to involve a romantic situation, on purpose. Other times, we are unaware of … Read more
When it comes to romantic relationships, trust is one of the foundational aspects that keeps couples together – happily and healthily. It’s the glue of relationships. When you start dating your partner, you need to build trust from scratch. And things happen in life that break trust, so you need to work hard to rebuild … Read more
Have you ever been involved with someone who always thought they were right? Did you ever feel you were starring in a real-life version of the film, “Gaslight“? You know, your lover showed no compassion, used manipulation to get their way, and tried to convince you that what they were saying was true instead of … Read more
Relationships can sometimes leave us scratching our heads about what went wrong. Have you ever been in a relationship or friendship with a woman who seemed to have trust issues? Maybe she overreacts with anger, fear, or sadness? If so, understanding her may be difficult but not impossible. Even though you may love this person … Read more
Uh-oh! Your husband does what? He yells at you? I’m sure you feel hurt. After all, you expect him to love, respect, and protect you. That time my girlfriend said to me, “My husband yells at me and makes me cry,” I wanted to tell her to yell back at him and let’s see how he feels. I had … Read more